Work With Me
About Betrayal Connections Meetings and Mentoring
After leading more intensive healing groups for many years—groups that required a significant commitment—I began to see a need for something different.
Some women are waiting for a spot in one of those groups for months. Others aren't quite ready for that level of commitment. Some are between counselors, have completed a recovery group but still need ongoing support, or simply need a safe place to connect with women who understand what they're going through.
I began offering Betrayal Connections groups as a more flexible, “drop-in” experience and saw how much women at different stages of healing appreciated having a safe place to decompress, connect, receive encouragement, and continue growing in their healing.
That experience helped shape the options you'll find here. Betrayal Connections is designed to help fill some of the gaps in your healing journey—providing connection, encouragement, coaching, and support when you need a little something more.
A Little About Me
I'm Kerrie, the founder of Betrayal Connections. My heart for supporting women through betrayal comes from my own experience of walking through sexual betrayal in my marriage and finding healing and hope on the other side of some very difficult years.
For more than 16 years, I've had the privilege of walking alongside women in Betrayal & Beyond as they worked through the confusion, pain, and difficult decisions that can follow betrayal. I'm not a professional counselor, but those years have given me a deep understanding of what women need during this difficult journey. I offer practical guidance, Christian encouragement, and a safe place to process what you're experiencing as you take steps toward healing.
If you'd like to know more about my story and why I created Betrayal Connections, you can read more on my About page.
Your Privacy Matters
Betrayal is deeply personal, and I want every woman who participates in a Betrayal Connections group or gathering to know that her privacy is taken seriously.
Before participating, all women are required to sign a confidentiality and non-disclosure agreement, which I will keep on file. Each participant agrees to respect the privacy of the other women and not share another woman's identity, story, or personal information outside of the group.
While confidentiality in any group setting can never be absolutely guaranteed, clear expectations will be established from the beginning so we can create a respectful environment where women can feel safer sharing and connecting with one another.
Groups Are Now Forming
Betrayal Connections is currently beginning to form new coaching and mentoring groups.
Groups will begin once at least six women are registered, which helps create the supportive group environment these gatherings are designed for.
If you're interested in joining a group, you are welcome to join the waitlist.
I'll contact you as soon as enough women are registered and a start date is available. Once we have a group gathered, I will choose a day and time that best suits the group at that time.
If you need support while you're waiting, you can also contact me about availability for individual mentoring.
Individual Betrayal Support
One-on-One Coaching & Mentoring
Sometimes you need more than a group setting. You may have something specific you're trying to work through, need help sorting through what you're experiencing, or simply need a safe place to talk with someone who understands betrayal.
I offer a limited number of individual coaching and mentoring sessions for women impacted by sexual betrayal. This is a place to ask questions, talk honestly about what you're experiencing, work through boundaries or difficult situations, and identify healthy next steps.
You don't need to have your marriage—or your future—figured out. I'm not here to tell you what decisions to make. I'm here to help you slow things down, seek truth and clarity, care for yourself, and determine what you need moving forward.
Initial Individual Session
90 minutes • $85
Our first meeting gives us extra time for you to share what's happening, talk about where you are right now, and identify the areas where you most need support.
Individual Support Package
Four 60-minute sessions • $275
For women who would like continued support, this package gives us time to work through questions, concerns, boundaries, decisions, and next steps over several meetings.
Limited Availability
Because much of my time is devoted to groups, writing, and developing Betrayal Connections resources, I intentionally work with only a small number of women individually at a time.
Sessions are available by Zoom or, for women in the Kona area, in person when scheduling and location allow.
Please contact me to ask about current availability.
Free Monthly Women’s Gatherings
Connection • Encouragement • Coaching • Completely Free
You don't have to walk through betrayal alone.
Each month, I offer two free gatherings for women impacted by sexual betrayal—one online through Zoom and one in person here in Kona, Hawaiʻi.
These gatherings are a place to connect with other women who understand some of what you're going through. We'll spend time encouraging one another, and I'll teach on different topics to help you better understand what you're experiencing. A great place to take gentle steps forward in your healing.
I am a Christian, and Biblical encouragement will be a natural part of our time together.
There is no ongoing commitment required, and there is no cost .
Advance registration is required.
One Monthly Zoom Gathering
Our online gathering makes it possible to participate from the privacy of your own home. It is open to women throughout the Hawaiian Islands, with a limited number of spaces available for women in Washington state who were previously connected with our betrayal support community.
*If you are a local, you are allowed to attend both the free in-person and free zoom meetings.
One Kona Women's Gathering
If you're local, I'd love to have you join us in person! Please contact me to get on list, and I’ll send you more info.
Zoom will not be available for this meeting.
Right now, the plan is to meet on the beach, where we can enjoy a relaxed setting while connecting and supporting one another, on the first Monday of each month, from 4:30-6:30pm.
Because the exact meeting location and time may vary, I'll send the details directly to each registered participants before each gathering.
Weekly Zoom Coaching & Mentoring Groups
Structured support for wherever you are in your healing journey.
Sometimes a monthly gathering isn’t enough, and you know you need more. My small-group coaching and mentoring groups below are designed for women who want more consistent support and are ready to set aside intentional time for their own healing.
Groups will meet weekly on Zoom with the same small group of women each week. Keeping the groups small gives time for meaningful conversation, questions, personal coaching, and the opportunity to develop connection and trust with one another.
I know Zoom isn't everyone's first choice, but it makes these groups accessible to women throughout the Hawaiian Islands and to those who may have difficulty attending an in-person group.
Each group focuses on a particular part of the betrayal healing journey. At each of our meetings, I’ll provide teaching and coaching from a Christian perspective, along with time to talk through what you’re experiencing and apply what we’re leaning to your own life.
What's Included In Each Zoom Group:
Weekly Zoom sessions
A small, consistent group of women
Teaching, coaching, and mentoring from a Christian perspective
Guided processing and Discussion
Time for questions, discussion, and personal application
Simple homework suggestions between meetings
Journaling prompts and reflection questions
Scripture, encouragement, and practical tools.
The work between meetings is intentionally manageable. You're already carrying enough. These aren't assignments to complete perfectly—they're opportunities to continue processing, reflecting, and caring for yourself throughout the week.
Shattered
A 7-Week Introductory Coaching & Mentoring Group
For women who need a place to begin. Read the free “Shattered Guid” to see if this group is for you.
Shattered is designed for women navigating the shock, confusion, and overwhelm that can follow the discovery of sexual betrayal.
Over the 7 weeks together, we'll use my Shattered Guided Journal (or prompts if publishing isn’t ready) as the foundation for our conversations. We'll talk about what you're experiencing, ways to care for yourself during an incredibly difficult season, and practical steps that can help you begin moving forward.
You don't need to know what you're going to do about your marriage. You don't need to have anything figured out. This is a place to slow things down, gain support, understanding, ask questions, and begin making some intentional space for your own healing.
7 weeks • 75 minutes weekly • Zoom
$140 for the complete 7-week group ($20/week)
Shattered journal purchased separately.
*Download the Free Shattered Guide on home page
Calm in the Chaos
8-week Guided Coaching & Mentoring Group
For women who are ready to continue the work of healing.
Sometimes the initial shock has passed, but life still doesn't feel calm, and you need continued support.
You may still be dealing with triggers, fear, difficult emotions, unanswered questions, relationship uncertainty, or simply the exhaustion that comes from carrying betrayal for a long time.
Calm in the Chaos is designed to give you a consistent place to continue processing what you're experiencing while developing practical ways to care for your mind, body, emotions, and spiritual life.
We'll use the Calm in the Chaos Guided Journal alongside our weekly conversations, giving you a private place to process between meetings and prompts to help you explore what you're learning at your own pace.
This group isn't about rushing you toward a particular decision or trying to “fix” everything. It's about creating space to understand what you're carrying, discover what you need, and continue moving toward greater stability, clarity, and peace.
8 weeks • 90 minutes weekly • Zoom
$240 for the complete 8-week group ($30/week)
Calm in the Chaos journal purchased separately.
Interested in Joining?
Groups will begin once a minimum of six women are registered. Space is limited so that every woman has an opportunity to participate during each meeting.
Group times & days will be chosen after I determine what works best for myself at the time of group formation, I do my best to accommodate schedules.
Your payment reserves your place for the full program. If you need to miss a meeting, your spot will still be held for you; however, missed meetings are not eligible for refunds, credits, or prorated discounts, including absences you know about in advance.
If you're interested in signing up, please use my Contact Form and let me know which group you're interested in. I'll send you additional details.
Betrayal Connections materials, groups, coaching, and mentoring are designed to complement—not replace—professional counseling, therapy, or a more comprehensive betrayal healing program when that level of care is needed.
I am not a licensed counselor or mental health professional. My coaching and mentoring are based on my own lived experience with betrayal and many years of walking alongside women through their healing. My goal is to encourage you with compassionate support, practical guidance, and the perspective of someone who has walked this road before.
Ongoing Mentorship
A little more support when you're ready to go deeper.
Healing doesn't necessarily end when you finish a betrayal recovery program. Growing in wisdom and life skills certainly doesn't You may understand betrayal much better than you once did. You've learned tools, established boundaries, worked through difficult emotions, and made significant progress—and yet there may still be places where you feel stuck, you have questions you're wrestling with, or see patterns you want help working through. You know that betrayal is a significant part of your healing journey, and you value being surrounded by safe women who understand what comes up for you. Rather than starting with the basics of betrayal recovery, we'll have room to go deeper—talking honestly about the challenges you're facing now, continuing to apply what you've learned. You'll receive mentoring, encouragement, and support from myself and other women who have also done significant healing work. This mentoring group is designed for women who have already completed another *approved* betrayal healing program, and want continued support as they move forward. This will be a smaller, more committed group where we can build trust over time and have deeper conversations about healing, relationships, boundaries, personal growth, faith, and creating a healthy life moving forward.
This is a place for women who are ready to continue investing in their healing and want the consistency, encouragement, and accountability that come from walking alongside a group of the same women over time.
What To Expect:
Weekly coaching and mentoring
Homework, with time to review and discuss it together each week
A new challenge to work on for the coming week
Guided journal experience
Self-care ideas and exercises
Biblical encouragement
Meaningful connection with women who understand
Gentle Accountability
A safe place to ask questions, find clarity, and identify your next steps
Small group of committed women
Cost & Commitment
$149 per month • 3-month initial commitment
Meaningful connection and trust take time to develop, especially when we're talking about something as personal as betrayal. For that reason, I ask women joining the Ongoing Mentoring Group to make an initial 3-month commitment.
After the initial three months, you may choose to continue on a month-to-month basis for as long as the group continues to be helpful to you.
The cost is $149 per month, which includes your weekly two-hour mentoring and coaching sessions, weekly homework and challenges, journaling prompts, self-care exercises, Biblical encouragement, and ongoing accountability within the group.
Your place is reserved specifically for you, so your monthly fee holds your spot in this intentionally small group whether or not you're able to attend every meeting.
From Surviving…to Freedom
Kerrie enjoys speaking at women's conferences, retreats, support groups, and church women's ministries about healing after betrayal.
Topics include:
Understanding the Impact of Sexual Betrayal
How to guard what you can, and trust God with the rest
Break Free From Destructive Patterns After Sexual Betrayal
What Forgiveness and Healing Really Look Like
Finding Hope in the Midst of Pain
Kerrie is also available to consult with churches interested in starting or strengthening a betrayal support group for women.
Her heart is to combine Biblical truth with practical encouragement, helping women move from merely surviving their pain toward greater freedom and wisdom as they learn to place their trust and hope in Christ.
If you are interested in inviting Kerrie to speak or to consult about starting a betrayal support group, please reach out through the Contact page.
Ready to Connect or Have Questions?
If you're interested in a free monthly gathering, Shattered, Calm in the Chaos, Ongoing Mentoring, or inviting me to speak, please reach out through my Contact Form. Groups are forming now, and I'll send you the registration details and anything else you'll need to know.
And please feel free to ask questions! You're welcome to reach out even if you're simply wondering which option might be a good fit for you. I would love to help connect you with the right support—even if what you need isn't something I offer.