Our wounds do not disqualify us. They can become places of strength, beauty, and renewal. Betrayal Connections is here to help women find clarity, healing, wisdom, and hope.
Betrayal can shake the foundations of our lives—our sense of worth, identity, hopes, dreams, beliefs, relationships, and even financial security. After years of walking alongside women through this pain, I know how deeply betrayal can knock you off your feet. My hope is to help you feel less alone, gain better understanding of what you are experiencing, and find your footing sooner.
Healing rarely happens all at once. Sometimes it simply means putting one foot in front of the other. Even small steps move you toward clarity and strength.
Your story is far from over. When you allow God into the broken places, He can bring beauty from ashes. Someday, those wounded places may become like cracks repaired with gold—valuable parts of your story that remind you how far you’ve come and may even bring hope to others.
Like Kintsugi,
Our broken pieces can be repaired with gold
Meet the Founder
My heart for helping women impacted by betrayal and sexual addiction comes from my own journey. After years of struggling to find my footing following sexual betrayal in my marriage, I joined a Betrayal & Beyond group at my church in Everett, Washington. For the first time, I was surrounded by women who understood, and I began finding the support, truth, tools, and hope I desperately needed.
That experience led to more than 16 years of facilitating Betrayal & Beyond groups and walking alongside women impacted by betrayal. I've heard many stories, watched women navigate incredibly difficult circumstances, and seen how powerful it can be to have a safe place where you don't have to explain why betrayal hurts so deeply.
My husband and I found support and healing through Pure Desire Ministries. Our journey wasn't quick or easy, and I don't believe there is one path every woman or marriage should follow. But I do believe healing is possible, wisdom can grow through painful seasons, and God can meet us in places we never expected to be.
While leading Betrayal & Beyond groups in Everett, I also began leading Betrayal Connections groups as another way for women to connect and receive support. After moving to Kona, Hawaiʻi, I felt it was time to expand Betrayal Connections beyond the small groups I had been leading and begin reaching women in new ways. My hope is to help fill some of the gaps in available support by offering options for women who may not be ready for—or may not have access to—a more intensive healing program. Women who have already done some healing will still benefit from this supportive place to stay on track in their growth.
I'm not a licensed counselor or mental health professional. What I bring is lived experience, years of facilitating groups and supporting women through betrayal, and a desire to help women move from simply surviving toward greater freedom, wisdom, and hope in Christ.
I'm also a wife, mom of three grown daughters, and a creative at heart. I believe healing is about more than what happened in your marriage. It's also about caring for yourself, finding your voice, growing in wisdom, and remembering that your story is much bigger than what someone else has done.
With Love and Hope for You,
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